The way I see it, the only thing I expect when I give a quilt or anything as a gift is "Thank You". The gift is the recipient's to do with whatever they want, no explanations or reasons necessary.The same is true for gifts given to me. I can display them in any part of my home or outside of my home. Or I can put it in storage and only take it out for maybe 1 month or 1 week a year. That's the good thing about gifts. There should be no obligation or responsibility attached to it.