My 7 year old niece made her first quilt, a large 4 patch, probably 40 x 36", was very proud of it. Then she discovered it was too small to cover all of her.
Her dilemma was deciding whether to give it to her 5 year old sister, her 2 year old brother or to the dog!
Her 8 year old brother gave her a piece of good "big brotherly" advice, "Don't give it to the dog. He'll chew it up in one day!"
I managed to keep a straight face, but it was tough.
So, no, I don't get upset if someone doesn't like or display something I make for them. Life is too short and all that stuff.