The last time I got offended was a few weeks ago and am still trying not to be angry. My very immature stepdaughter made a comment a while back about wanting a quilt. I thought about it for a long time before I made it because..well, long story..anyway, made it, no thank you, just got..well it's about time you made me one. Thats it. Never again. People do not realize the time that goes into them. But lesson learned.