I have in the past been offended by this but, I have learned that it is their loss and not mine if they do not use it. I have given baby quilts That I never see again and my GDs that just had to have one put it in a closet because they do not want to ruin them. I know that I made them with love and they were given in the right spirit so what they do with them is up to them because now it is theirs.