wendsy, isn't it just awful how life seems to pile on a whole bunch of stuff at once? you will get thru it, but meantime it is not easy or fun. your grandmother sounds like she's had an active and fulfilling life. maybe she's ready to pass the reins over while she coasts for awhile. a cancer diagnosis throws everyone for a bit. glad to hear no deaths from the tornado. i grew up with hurricanes--plenty of time to prepare. then we moved to texas. jeesh! no predicting with tornadoes, and therefor much more frightening! i hope things are getting normalized. we have until september for the swap. no hurry. take time to catch your breath! it's been said before, we'll be here. if there's something i can do to help, let me know. i'm just a fingertip away!