Stupid???? Naw... just suffering what I'm sure is a temporary lapse of sanity. OK, lapse over now?? Good, get on the phone with Grandma and tell her upon reflection, you'd be thrilled to have her long arm, but you just didn't want her to give it away only to regret it later. Offer to at least pay the postage. If she's not too far away why don't You and hubby take a weekend drive to visit grandma and he can break it down and you can bring it home yourselves. Of course, you first project should be something really special for her.