No one in my family will say a word anymore, I tell them it's none of their buisness and if they don't like it, there's the door, and i hope it doesn't hit them in the rear on the way out. Every time one moved out, I always had to put up with their stuff taking up space in my home until they "could find themselves" I didn't know they were lost. They have been grown and gone for awhile and they still try to say something, I told them don't bother coming over if you have something negative to say.