WE have been married 52 years this Nov. Instead of a big party on our 50th, the entire family went to Cape Cod, Ma. I have 7 daughters and along with their spouses and 17 grandchildren. It was hectic but a lot of fun. I would rather do something like that than have a party at a restaurant. One of my daughters has a friend that has a 5 bedroom house on the water at the Cape and lets us rent it for a long weekend. We are very lucky. There is nothing like a big family get together.