Be glad you have a sewing room even if it is a mess. I have been sewing on my kitchen table for years. I store my fabric in the chests and closets up stairs, the patterns are in another cupboard--you are right it is all over the house. I think I know where most of it is at the present time. Last fall I cleaned and sorted and gave every thing away I didn't think I would ever sew. Glad I did, it opened up room for the things I hope to get at soon lol. Bad thing is we never have room at the table to have a meal without putting my sewing away so we usually eat in front of the tv. Bad habit.