Originally Posted by Sharonsews
Glad your Mom is doing better. My FIL is in Hospice. I have things (crochet, material, etc) in the van to work on but can't do it. My hands aren't the steadiest. My SIL has an ipad to play games on to pass time and we talk about different trips that MIL and FIL took alone and with their gkids, all the years swimming at their pool, etc. I feel guilty for laughing at some of the silly stories while he is laying there. I feel guilty for eating while he snoozes - asleep for 3 days now. Is this normal to feel this way? I want to be there for my husband.
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No, don't feel bad about laughing or talking about memories. I'm told that the last body ability to be lost is hearing, so it's very possible that your FIL can hear you, even though he can not respond. Keep telling him you love him and every now and then send a comment to him. That will send him home with love in his heart.