Originally Posted by Ruth Camp
Don't be bashful and you won't feel resentful..... You just can't read minds...tell her and see what happens
Thank you, Ruth ... I had forgotten my father's advice:
They can't shoot your for asking, but they can tell you "no" ... however, if you never ask, you will never know.
To be fair ... without talking to her, you don't know what she will or will not do ... that is fair ... Ruth had very good advice, indeed!
One time, I was going to help someone do something, and waited for a meeting date ... asked for a meeting date to set things up ... and, it never happened ... turns out, neither one of us knew who the final authority on anything was! Without that designated at the beginning, too much is assumed ...