Rita's mom it's so sad to lose them so foolishy and so young, sending you lots of hugs.
MJ was the work for those online sites you posted the other day? Contact your local district attorney, they may be able to help.
Since we have been discussing "bathroom issues", I'll just throw my 2 cents into the pot. As some of you may recall I have celiac disease and am on a gluten free diet. Although my symptoms were different, many people with this disease have the exact symptoms you are all mentioning. If you have an auto-immune disorder, you could possibly also have celiac. If you think it is at all possible, DON'T go on the diet without a blood test. If you go gluten free and the symptoms go away, you have to make yourself sick again or the blood test will be negative. Sometimes you have to have the medical diagnosis for insurance, or a child's school.
http://www.celiaccentral.org/Celiac-Disease/21/