I grew up in a family of smokers and with pets. I don't care if someone smokes.
Right now, we don't have any pets living with us, my dog now lives with my mom since my Dad died. My pup keeps Mom happy, and he's bonded strongly with her. However, he does come over our house all the time.
Mom smokes, but not in our house, and DH and I choose not to smoke.
Every quilt I've sold has been washed before mailing.
I don't like Febreeze - it can kill small pets and it's harmful to little children (which I have). So if a quilt is going anywhere, I just let people know that we have a pet friendly home. No complaints so far.