Just a thought, But when I get stuck with what to quilt, I do outline quilting. I outline the pattern. I've also heard it called shadow quilting. How about tyeing them or maybe one of them. But since you love the quilting process so much, I guess thats not an option.
Make it easy on yourself, but by no means don't call yourself a failure. Oh my gosh the thought, love, care, and work that goes in to createing your baby. Is one huge sucess.