Dear Missi,
Oh boy.. Emotions are high alert for weddings. They should be outlawed.. err.. interesting word.. In-law/Out-law...
You are part of a "team" with the number of one. Credit to two, but work load and cost to one.. Sorry you are in this position..
The wedding is going to happen anyway.. Take any offers, smile and remember the "friend" that became a "partner" for never again on your list.
Good luck, smile.. have fun ! It is the brides day.. We all just have to work so hard for it all !!!
Ellen