His birthday is actually the 7th and we had to postpone the party until the 16th as that is when one of my husbands uncles (he is only one that lives out of state) will be in from Colorado..
So we have planned a small store bought cake and a fairly normal present for his bday day but no big deal...then we are going to have either my hubby or hus aunt act like the are taking him somewhere to go out to eat or something and then say they have to stop at my house (fellowship hall we are using is in alley behind our house) and bring him there instead (we live in the country so they need an excuse for not heading to town)