Rhonda, there are a significant number of people who seem to have a hard time accepting responsibility for their own actions or problems. Sounds like your friend is somehow making you responsible for her difficulties (in her mind) because that's easier than self examination and self correction. Sorry for how she has treated you; maybe you should take a break from trying to fix everything for her until there is an attitude adjustment. You're being very kind, but time is a valuable thing and I'm sure there are others who would appreciate some friendly help!