ok, ladies (we are all female, right?) this has been a disaster of a week! i was going great guns until my husband came home. i felt i clearly told him about my eating plan, but evidently, he heard very little. he went to sonic and brought me the largest burger they have, and a 44oz cherry limeade, and french fries. only glad there was no dessert. then he went out for breakfast nad came back with coffee, but was all flustered because he forgot to get me donuts. he picked up chinese food with at least half the meal as fried rice, and wanted me to have fried noodles on my chow mein. i said--we need to talk. and again i laid out my food plan. we went to the mall on an errand and there's olive garden, which he thought would be nice for father's day. i had tilapia with parmesan crust and steamed summer veggies, half a bread stick in maranara sauce, and 4 grilled shrimp in a lemon garlic butter sauce, and big confession--1/3 of a tiramisu. and 6 cups of coffee. i left my new 1ltr water bottle at the mall--boo, hiss. my dh is recovering from cancer and needs to GAIN weight and in the past 2 weeks has lost 7 lbs (while out of town). i have to find a way for him to bulk up and me to slim down. so far it's not happening and you all know i was losing weight! i think it's all the mad dashes to the bathroom! HELP! how can i feed him real food high in calories and protein while i eat frozen microwave lean cuisine?