Legally married or not isn't a concern, commitment and compassion matter so much more :D
I'm proud of you for smoking outside the car. You did it right. I'm a granny now and ex smoker. I wish I could say I did the same for my kids :cry: My son does not smoke in the car when his daughter is with him, and he doesn't allow anyone to smoke in the house either. The baby's mom doesn't either. I won't lecture you for smoking, but I do hope you can quit one day.
You're a good mom, trust your instincts, and ignore the idiots in this world!!