So sorry to hear of the loss of your BF. How wonderful that you were given her quilting stuff and how thoughtful of you to finish the quilt tops for her 4 children. I know they will be thrilled. And you will receive great comfort when working with her quilt tops and quilting things.
I'm sure that the people you promised items to will definitely understand. Our QB friends are so wonderful!
Enjoy the moments as you finish the quilt tops!!