Oh mimisharon, i am so VERY VERY sorry!!! Yes, you are doing best staying with Roy, your sister will love her prayer quilt so very very much. Could we do something for you? Those two precious little girls, i am crying so much for them, and the youngest one the most, because she just won't understand where mommy is. Could we do something for the little girls? There is a quilt pattern called kisses and hugs, and i can't think of anything better than if those two little girls each got a kisses and hugs quilt to represent their mom still being with them. If you would like something like that, i would love to organize it on another thread. We could each make a kiss square and a hugs square. I can put the instructions up on another thread. If you would like that, we can make the squares and mail them to you, so that you can finish them up in your loving way, but if you are not up to it, i would be glad to finish them up for you. But maybe the girls already have enough quilts too, so hatever you like hon, if you think this would help, just let me know. Love you so much and so very sorry (((hugs)))