you and your friend was having too much fun for that lady LOL....I smoked thru 3 pregnancies and finally at 60 had to quit and it was sooo hard...not an easy thing to do. I came up with cancer at 65 and asked the doctor if smoking contributed to the cancer and He said what do you think...well that told me how stupid I was. btw, 21 is not young to have your first child. Keep up the good work