Wish I could send my husband to live with our daughter in VA, but she doesnt' want him either. I'd divorce him, but we can't afford it and after almost 42 years of being married, there's no point. And my son who lives 3 miles away doesn't want him either. Oh well. He just changed so much when he got laid off, and even when he went back to work after almost 2 years he just gave up. I just wish I could have had a crystal ball and applied for SS disability with my arthritis, but I kept thinking I would get a job. So much for that. Well, it's raining again today and the humidity is so high you could almost cut it with a knife. How old are the kids that you babysit? Just curious. I'd love to be able to babysit our 1 year old granddaughter, but I have so much trouble walking with my arthritis, that I'd be afraid I would fall and hurt her. Take care.