Love your quilt.
I'm sorry for your mom. I've just experienced the loss of an immediate family member; the one thing I can tell you is to allow yourself to be the daughter more than your mom's caregiver, if you possibly can. It is a much more intimate and beautiful relationship and only a special person can be a daughter. There are trained and skilled people to be caregivers. Love her every minute you can. I pray for the peace and serenity of your family during this time.
Jan in VA