I still wear Tank tops but I'm having a hard time wearing shorts. I told myself I would worry about what others think but it's not working. I think the best way to fix the problem is to not have friends that are younger and thinner then you are.
I sure wish they would make shorts that are longer and looser, having a big bootie does me no good at all. Oh, and the bat wing arms I call "Grandma bye, bye arms. Just think back to when you were little and visited your grandparents. They would wave good bye front the front door. Grandma in her flowered dress and apron waving and her upper arm would also be waving bye, bye. Getting old is not for sissies.....