My friend that taught me to hand applique said to use what is comfortable for you. I prefer a longer needle and I use a milliner needle. To me they are easier to thread than straw. I use what ever thread that matches the fabric. I use silk, mettler, gutermann, or connecting threads. But I agree that silk blends beautifully. I like the starch method also, don't have to use as many pins. Enjoy its a wonderful carry along project. Love it