Sorry I am old school I guess. If my 14 year old, now 32 wanted to go to a movie. I decided where and when. If #2 is cheaper then #2 it is. If thats not ok with her, then she doesn't go. My daughter always said I was mean then on her 25th birthday she sat down and wrote me a letter about how she resented me during school for being so "meanand needing to know where she was every minute" but wanted to stop now and thak me as she always knew I loved her and it made her grow up a responsible adult able to make good decisions. 7 years later I still reread that letter often.