If she doesn't go to either one, and have to wait for it to come out on Netflix, she will remember that children don't have entitlements. It would be #2 or nothing. Stick to your guns unless she is paying for the movie, snacks, gas. Let alone the aggravation of taking her and 6 of her friends to a midnight movie. Yes you do understand, but it will all be forgotten by the time she gets married.