I just read the whole thread. A few things came to mind. I have a very good friend who likes to make things for her grandchildren. Every year she makes christmas stockings for them and asks me to embroider their names on. She just bought a new Bernina machine with all the bells 'n' whistles. She has all the great tools, just doesn't really understand how to use them. #1. her cutting-out of the item is uneven and downright messy. #2. She has no idea how to sew an even seam. I calmly take the whole item apart to flatten it for the embroidery hoop, then neaten things up as much as possible when putting it back together. I don't want to make it "perfect" - just neater. She has other attributes that are just as important as being a perfectionist. Besides, she is my good friend.