Originally Posted by okie3
Do I just put the quilt up for awhile and see how things go.
YES! At least that is what I would do. Quilting and giving quilts as gifts is supposed to be joyful, or therapeutic, not stressful and potentially resentful.
I wish the answer to the rest of the problem was as easy. I'm sorry for everyone involved in the situation. It's sad when families break up - no matter what the reason.