My kids, their families, and hubby and I are fortunate enough these days to not need "things". It has been a challenge buying Christmas to find something for everyone. So we decided to "adopt" a needy family for Christmas. We went to Human Services and asked for a family that was struggling to make ends meet, one that wasn't just sucking off the system. They were very agreeable and gave us a family with 2 kids (no names, just ages and gender). We all went together to try and give them a good Christmas, instead of buying for each other. It was so much more fun. We bought food, basic needs, and toys! We made sure each of the parents got a personal luxury item. We even had some of the local businesses donate some items or services. It was the best Christmas we had in years. Hoping to do it again this year. It helps me to realize, once again, what the holiday is all about.