HUG HUG HUG!!!!
I can't believe someone would try to tell you your preemie hats are too big or too small.....I have yet to see any two babies exactly the same size!!!!! Keep up the good work. The moms that receive your gifts will be very appreciative. As for the senior centre and things have to be done the "right" way, sometimes our senior citizens can be a little "set in their ways". Usually a smile and a head nod will go a lot farther than trying to argue with them.
Good on ya for being such wonderful volunteer.
Patti