Cajunquilter, I had the same thing happen. The woman at www.fabricstodyefor.com seems like she couldn't be nicer or more helpful EXCEPT for the fact that she charges your credit card immediately and then never delivers. After a few weeks of excuses, she was sick, in an accident, then had family problems, she even went to so far as to send me the email link to my "USPS receipt." The receipt only showed the online request, she tried to tell me it was the USPS's fault, she had every excuse in the world. It dawned on me about day 56 to call the credit card. Remember, you can only contest a charge until the 60th day, then she gets to keep your money.
Call you credit card asap and then stay away from www.fabricstodyefor.com. I am sorry to hear you had the same thing happen. Because she seemed so nice, I wanted to believe it was just an unfortunate incident w/me.