I think it is a beautiful quilt!!!
And I don't know whose call it was to decide what color co-ordinates with what kid ??? Some of us are kin to some REAL jerks. I see you got one of them, too!!
Cowboys wear pink shirts from time to time, and my girls had blue dresses.
It's a lovely quilt, and warmth and love are what should count.
And I wouldn't send her any diapers, either. Raging prenatal hormones are NO excuse for being rude.