My husband has it like you (all over). I ordered a lavender olive oil soap for him and it does help. I use only scent free laundry soap and don't use fabric sheets in the drier. I use unscented fabric softener since I was told there's something besides the scent in the fabric sheets that can make it worse. You can get the soaps and shampoos at freederm online. Also his dermatologist suggested soap from goats milk which I'm going to try when he runs out of this soap. A good ointment that is over the counter is aquaphor.