Yup, totally understand. My husband used to load up his horse and roping gear for a roping weekend...me, I would load up my sewing stuff and hang in the motel for the weekend. One time he said, "There are some people you might like to see at the arena so you might want to go down and visit." I said, "Or not." Come to think of it, he needs to go to another weekend roping. He kind of retired from it this year. Sewing is the first thing that I pack up...before clothes or anything.