I guess I'm one of the "new" people. Just been here half a year or so. I looked up Sondray because I remembered seeing that name, and found her last post was in April, and reading them, there is no indication she was about to disappear. It's kind of unsettling, but maybe she's just busy. You could try a pm. Tell her she's missed, even by someone who hardly knew her. She used to post tons of links to good sites.
henryparrish76 last posted just a few days ago. Looks like he's having a rough time.
Btw, I love your tag line!