Thanks for everyone's thoughts. I think I am going to wait to leave feedback if I leave it at all. If what the guy told me is true and they had no control over it because ebay automatically adds a shipping fee, then it was my fault for not catching it on the invoice I was sent. If I had been more alert maybe none of this would have happened. the thing was, I had never had this happen before so I really don't think ebaby did it. But, since I don't sell on ebay, I probably don't know what I am talking about. either way, I might just leave a positive and tell everyone to check their invoice for "free shipping" charges. I think I am giving up Ebay! It isn't worth it.