You did the right thing in going to get information on your own.Just be persistent about it in a nice way:) My husband and I have been married for over 40 years and I still like to tease him that we would still be living in my parents' apartment, where we lived for about the first 6 months of our marriage, if I hadn't kept after him. And don't worry about talking to the builders without telling him before hand. Sometimes we put those restrictions on ourselves. Hang in there!