You know sometimes people are caught up in a moment like a party or shower and just don't think. I am sure they would be very upset if they knew that their unthoughtful reaction caused you to be sad. It is a lovely quilt and any new mom and dad would be proud and honored to have such a wonderful gift made with so much thought and love for their little baby boy. About a year ago I made a baby quilt for a new grandchild of a woman that I worked with. I spent a lot of time and money on the quilt but I never got a thank you or even an acknowledgement. So one day at work I said to the woman, "how did your son and daughter in law like the quilt?" Her face turned red and she knew in an instant that I had not been thanked. The next day a thank you card was on my desk signed by the son and daughter in law, however, I had worked with this woman long enough to recgonize her handwriting. My feelings were hurt for a long time after that also, so I can relate. You are a kind and loving person and you should be proud of yourself and that lovely quilt.