I'll give you the same advice my Gramma gave me---TALK and LISTEN to one another-- NEVER EVER go to bed mad and ALWAYS tell one another you love the life you have together Never take one another for granted- Hold hands every chance you get- Help each other get over the hurdles because there will be hurdles AND once an argument is settled leave it that way don't dwell on the petty things Last but not least -----Love-Honor and Cherish your lifes partner--- I only had my Husband for 25 yrs before he passed away And we were still IN love and I'll always be in love with him