The proof will be in the pudding when it comes time to actually use the two different ones. A similar thing happened to me and I was kinda hurt UNTIL the baby came. They actually use the one I made and brag on it a lot when others see it. The one that they made a fuss over at the shower turned out to be from someone who was not as close but they felt for family peace that they had to make a big deal. I think your quilt is really great and will be loved and used a lot more than you think it will.