We have been married 42 years and I still love this guy with all my heart. Marriage is bound to have ups and downs, all of them do. Nobody is perfect. Respect each other and don't try to change him. Accept him the way he is and if you're lucky he will also feel the same way about you. I found in the early years of marriage, I expected my DH to be a mind reader and "know" what was on my mind. Well, that didn't work too well and I eventually found that if something was bothering me, it was important that "I" speak up and express my thoughts.( and sometimes that was very hard) Most of the time, he never realized something was amiss. Also, at times when you need him to tell you something---don't be afraid to tell him. ie. I'm feeling sad right now and I need a hug and from you and tell me everything will be okay.......works for me---(Don't hold grudges, just makes you miserable...,leave it and go on.)
BTW, you two are a darling couple and I wish you nothing but the best! :lol: