We will have our 49th anniversary in September. One thing I learned many years ago is that if I do everything I can to make him happy, I will be happy. He will never be perfect, but then neither will I. I had to learn to accept him as he is. We were married young too. I was 18, he was 21. I think when you marry young the first 10 to 15 years are the hardest because you are both still 'growing up.'