So many good replies and advice for you from all the dear quilters!!! I wish you lots of love and patience with each other and a thing that I find very important is RESPECT. Also I found when things got a bit rough in our marriage - this year we will have been married for 39 years, together for 41 years!!! :-D - communication wasn't working properly. So make sure you communicate in a sensible manner. And if things get REALLY rough, don't be too proud to seek help. I wish you both a life full of happiness and lots of blessings :thumbup: :lol: