I wouldn't be too "down" right now; she was probably overwhelmed with all the gifts. I once made a baby quilt for a girl in our office who was in cancer remission and her once in a lifetime pregnancy. She was very casual about the quilt at the shower, but the next morning, she sought me out and thanked me profusely for the quilt (it was a quilt in which I asked all the girls in the office to make and sign a block). When she got home and realized what she had, she was most appreciative. Maybe this will happen to you. I hope so, for the quilt was as cute as could be!