laugh together. And never, never, never, never go to bars with or without your spouse. :) That's the advice I got from a woman many many years ago. I was married 16 yrs, divorced. Married 15 yrs and widowed. Married 6 yrs now and KNOW that woman was telling the truth. My advice is also to never sweat the small stuff. So what if he doesn't pick up his socks.......if the socks keep getting thrown away because obviously he thought they were trash, he'll figure it out sooner or later!!! ROL!