I'm so sorry that this has happened. Most quilters would have asked to see the tops and if they were in the area offered to get together with you and help or whatever I've done that several times here.
I haven't created a profile yet I've just been a lurker most of the time but this really hurt me to think that a quilter would behave this way.
Can you take some online friends and create a contest between all of you at who can get the most UFO's or WIP done during the year. Sometimes that helps.
I've been in a slump here lately too just can't get the fingers to work at doing the hand quilting that needs to be done.
Just keep creating.