Perhaps the comment just fed into the guilt that you were already feeling about not finishing you tops. And that is what made you take the comment wrong. Lots of "quilter" like only the piecing process. I really like the peicing process and have to force myself to finish the quilt. Perhaps you could try to sell the UFO on this board or donate them to local quilt quild for them to finish. Earlier a board member "jenni M" was looking for UFO to be sent to her and she would finish them and to be auction off to raise money for a scholarship fund in her son's name. I sent her 2 UFO that I did not really llike and knew that I would not finish. Perhaps you could contact her and see if she still wants UFO.