I am sure that no one wanted to, or meant to hurt anyone's feelings. I am sure that most of us have regifted before when we can not use an item or perhaps in this case since the pansy had a special meaning to canjun quilter because of her mother , that her sp meant to give her something special and she had a wonderful item to give her. Please try to remember that we are here to have fun and if you want to comment please comment to me.